The end of an era, and the beginning of another

You know, there actually was a time when I wrote on a blog on almost a daily basis. I actually had followers and people who sent me comment and email after email wondering where the hell I went when I stopped writing. I don't know, I stepped away from it because I was afraid how some of the things I wrote might be perceived if they were tied to me in my daily life.



But you know, at that time, I forgot, that's what pseudonyms are for... although to be fair, that wasn't the only reason I stopped writing. I stopped writing for reasons that aren't exactly clear. Some might toss if off as I ran out of things to say... nah... that isn't it, hell let's face it, I am actually over the top opinionated... grins... I have opinions on opinions and if that's not enough, I have opinions for your opinions too.



That doesn't mean that my opinions are always right. It just means that they are mine and that they... like their owner ... are often flawed.



Ok...I am straying from the topic here. A time when something came to an end and something else began. So that blog came to an end and other things, people, happenings came to fill the place of the blog. Were they better, some were and some weren't.



It's kind of like an ex-husband or ex-relationship of any sort... there are some really great things that come in their absence. No farting in the bed next to you... oh wait... my 8 year old often climbs in there... so scratch that one. Anyway, you often find that you are better off without the legally removed appendage, but at the same time, there are those things that you do miss... jars that need opened... scratches that need itched (wiggles eyebrows)... and trash that needs taking out.



I, fortunately, (and I use the word fortunately only because I REALLY mean it) have to EX-husbands. I am fortunate that they are ex's as I am sure that had I still been married to either of them, I would have A) been in stepford like denial, B) been in a mental institution, or C) been in prison. Although C would actually have only happened had I been a widow and therefore wouldn't still be married to them. Hmmmm... ok...don't you just love the way my mind works. Those relationships closed and I can honestly say that today, while completely unconventional in oh so many ways... today with who and what I have... I am completely blessed and completely heart invested.



So I guess, I am better off when one door closed and another opened. Now all I have to do is make this blog work... oh hell... this is going to be fun....